Seriously... how can April be almost over already?! I don't even know what happened this past month!!!
Well last week was certainly a very packed week... PolyU interview, meeting for a potential internship in Cambodia... last week with B&E... :( missions to Changsha, and now this week is almost over as well!
Interviews and meeting I know is what most people have been wanting to know about, all I have to say is that they are done, and it's all in God's hands. I trust that He will open the right doors and that He will give me the obedience to walk through them when the time comes. :)
I have to be honest... there was defintely water works at my last week with my Plus family B&E. Hahaha.. not to say that my new Plus is bad... they're just as wonderful, but it's still sad. This is the family that has been walking with me through life for the last 2 and some years! All the ups and downs... breakthroughs and stubborness... it's been some good times! Will definitely miss them! At the same time, very excited for what God will reveal in this new season with a new Plus!
Pretty funny and ironic... or just God's perfect timing as usual, went to ANHOP on Wednesday, and they were praying about leaving the old and going forward into the new. I think when April ends, I will definitely be entering into a new season in all aspects of my life... work is actually changing as well... we've finally replaced my coworker who left, and I will be moving into my dual role of personal assistant and funding assistant. (Promotion and Pay raise included... hahaha :P) New Plus... new role in Plus... as a Plus leader... etc etc etc.
Actually... I feel like I am in a transition phase between the old and the new... after talking to a friend last night... it may be a season of breaking a lot of the old ways of life that I had developed... growing up in a not so healthy Christian environment. It's breaking my heart as these things are being revealed to me.... and just how screwed up my way of thinking and processing has become because of it... but I don't want to live with all that stuff anymore... and I want God to free me from all that so that I may grow and be even better! Or perhaps that is the new season... a season of breaking off the old...
This will be very very interesting... God is good. :)
29 Apr 2011
19 Apr 2011
I've got love on the brain...
So for the past couple days, my mind has been stuck on this concept of love. Not the "oooooh looooove" kinda love, but Love, as God is Love. The Love that changes people from the inside out, the Love that can change the world...
"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him and he in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother." ~ 1 John 4:7-21
When John is talking about hating one's brother, the word hate is defined in a comparative nature. It means to denounce one choice in favour of another. To love someone less than someone else... He repeats this line more than once in the book of 1 John... that if we proclaim to love God, but do no love our brothers and sisters, we are liars. Wow... but we have to remember that the line before this says that "we love because he first loved us."
Actually, that makes it even harder. If God's love is the example for which we must follow in how we love our brothers and sisters... that means we must love everyone more than ourselves. Which the the calling of being a follower of Christ. Perhaps it's time for me to get my own head out of my own arse to start seeing people as Christ sees people, and not as I see people.
God gave me a glimpse of what happens when we get our heads out our own arses... you begin to see how God's heart breaks for those around you... and OMG it hurts!!! But... when God is pleased and happy... that joy is also just as encompassing! I don't know how to explain it, but when we can get past ourselves and stop acting in a "self preservation" mode... God comes in and He moves, and He works....
I'm not perfect... and I'll be honest, as my heart began to hurt, I began to shut myself up. I took the pain, but I didn't act on it... and I didn't obey God's calling to love as He had wanted me to. Right now I'm still struggling with the obedience to the higher calling of loving everyone... but I want to be one who is obedient, I want to be someone who practices what she speaks... so... I will continue to pray for more grace and love from God to carry this out.
"Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
We know that we live in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God lives in him and he in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother." ~ 1 John 4:7-21
When John is talking about hating one's brother, the word hate is defined in a comparative nature. It means to denounce one choice in favour of another. To love someone less than someone else... He repeats this line more than once in the book of 1 John... that if we proclaim to love God, but do no love our brothers and sisters, we are liars. Wow... but we have to remember that the line before this says that "we love because he first loved us."
Actually, that makes it even harder. If God's love is the example for which we must follow in how we love our brothers and sisters... that means we must love everyone more than ourselves. Which the the calling of being a follower of Christ. Perhaps it's time for me to get my own head out of my own arse to start seeing people as Christ sees people, and not as I see people.
God gave me a glimpse of what happens when we get our heads out our own arses... you begin to see how God's heart breaks for those around you... and OMG it hurts!!! But... when God is pleased and happy... that joy is also just as encompassing! I don't know how to explain it, but when we can get past ourselves and stop acting in a "self preservation" mode... God comes in and He moves, and He works....
I'm not perfect... and I'll be honest, as my heart began to hurt, I began to shut myself up. I took the pain, but I didn't act on it... and I didn't obey God's calling to love as He had wanted me to. Right now I'm still struggling with the obedience to the higher calling of loving everyone... but I want to be one who is obedient, I want to be someone who practices what she speaks... so... I will continue to pray for more grace and love from God to carry this out.
15 Apr 2011
Friday... mid April
Wow... I am cranky pants today. I woke up feeling like the world just trampled all over me. I woke up feeling so defeated, like the whole world was against me, and trying to screw me over.
"What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? Who shall bring any charge against God's elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died - more than that, who was raised - who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall seperate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?... No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us." ~ Romans 8: 31-37
I know these thoughts hold no truth. I know that I am not defeated, I know that my friends are not waiting to stab me in the back. These thoughts and feelings are NOT of God. Where does all this crap come from?! Actually, I think I know where it all comes from, but God has promised that I don't have to be that person anymore.
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!" ~ 2 Corinthians 5:17
I am a new creation... I don't have to live in all that crap anymore. Those things are not of the new creation that God has made me. I know that this journey that I'm decided to embark on will not be easy, but I am determined to embrace who God has made to me. Allowing to remove all that shall not remain... I trust I trust I trust. This will be hard... the more I trust, the harder these thoughts are going to be to fight... But I am relieved in knowing that in Christ victory is already mine, that He is walking with me, going through it all with me. He has also blessed with an amazing family (you all know who you are!) to walk with me, encourage me, and pray with and for me! This is POSSIBLE because of Christ!
I feel much better now. :)
"What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things? Who shall bring any charge against God's elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died - more than that, who was raised - who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us. Who shall seperate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?... No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us." ~ Romans 8: 31-37
I know these thoughts hold no truth. I know that I am not defeated, I know that my friends are not waiting to stab me in the back. These thoughts and feelings are NOT of God. Where does all this crap come from?! Actually, I think I know where it all comes from, but God has promised that I don't have to be that person anymore.
"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come!" ~ 2 Corinthians 5:17
I am a new creation... I don't have to live in all that crap anymore. Those things are not of the new creation that God has made me. I know that this journey that I'm decided to embark on will not be easy, but I am determined to embrace who God has made to me. Allowing to remove all that shall not remain... I trust I trust I trust. This will be hard... the more I trust, the harder these thoughts are going to be to fight... But I am relieved in knowing that in Christ victory is already mine, that He is walking with me, going through it all with me. He has also blessed with an amazing family (you all know who you are!) to walk with me, encourage me, and pray with and for me! This is POSSIBLE because of Christ!
I feel much better now. :)
11 Apr 2011
I'm not looking...
I'm not looking for someone to complete me,
God's already completed me.
I'm not looking to settle,
God's promised only the best for me.
I'm not looking for someone to provide,
God's already provided me with everything I need.
I'm not looking for someone to make me happy,
God's given me a source of joy that no one can match.
I'm not looking for someone to answer my questions,
God alone is all knowing.
I'm not looking for my idea of perfection,
God's perfection will be so much better.
God's already completed me.
I'm not looking to settle,
God's promised only the best for me.
I'm not looking for someone to provide,
God's already provided me with everything I need.
I'm not looking for someone to make me happy,
God's given me a source of joy that no one can match.
I'm not looking for someone to answer my questions,
God alone is all knowing.
I'm not looking for my idea of perfection,
God's perfection will be so much better.
So I wrote this in March 2009... had stashed it away, and was thinking of finishing it... or fixing it but never got around to it. Found it today... and thought I'd just post it as it is. :P
8 Apr 2011
Humility
These words (in bold) really hit me last night as I was listening to this song:
"Oh lead me
To the place where I can find you
Oh lead me
To the place where you'll be
Lead me to the cross
Where we first met
Draw me to my knees
So we can talk
Let me feel your breath
Let me know you're here with me"
"Oh lead me
To the place where I can find you
Oh lead me
To the place where you'll be
Lead me to the cross
Where we first met
Draw me to my knees
So we can talk
Let me feel your breath
Let me know you're here with me"
4 Apr 2011
The way it should be... according to God!
So... I've debated for a long time whether to blog this or not, and I'm finally giving in and gonna blog it. Seriously, you should've all seen this coming, and it was only a matter of time before I started blogging about breaking up. :P
Let's just get completely honest... most of us ask the question "do you ever stop loving that person?" Or some form of that question... when does it stop hurting, when do you stop caring... etc etc...
Let me present this idea: What if you're not suppose to?
Now before you all start telling me how wrong you all think I am... or how stupid you all think I am, let me explain myself. What is love? (baby don't hurt me... don't hurt me... no more) Sorry... getting back on track...
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endure all things. Love never ends." ~ 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8a
This is not "love" as the world has defined it, this is love as God describes it... this is the unconditional love of God, with which He asks us to love the world with. It doesn't say that this is the love that we use to love our significant others with... this is the love with which we are to love everyone with... friends, family, colleagues, neighbours, people you encounter on a daily basis. Regardless of whether you are in a "romantic" relationship or not... you are to love your sisters and brothers in Christ with this same love!
Before you were "together" you were brothers and sisters in Christ, and in most cases, friends. Nothing changes this fact... and you loved each other. Now just because you're no longer together, it doesn't mean that you get to stop loving. It doesn't mean that they're no longer your sister or brother in Christ! The source with which you are loving with has not changed. Friends, family, wife husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, coworker, lady on the street... you love out of the abundance of God's love in you. How you express that love to each of these different people is different... but the source is not. So when you breakup... you don't STOP loving someone, you simply change the way you experss that love.
"By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." ~ John 13:35
Open your eyes and your heart and your mind... and look beyond your human understanding of what love is. Read that verse in John... it screams of a different way of life. It tells us that we must live differently than the world...
I understand that this is hard. I do. I know that some relationships end with so much pain and bitterness... that this sounds impossible. I've been there. I know the pain of abandonment and betrayal as well, but God IS bigger than all of those things. Let God have all of that pain, and allow Him to make you new. Let God cleanse you of all that... restore your heart, so that HIS love may overflow in you, so that you may walk out His purposes for you. God's hand is worth holding... a grudge is not, but you cannot hold God's hand until you let of the grudge. (I should know!)
"Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere and brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart, since you have been born again, not of perishable seed but of imperishable, through the living and abiding word of God." ~ 1 Peter 1:22-23
Yes... this is hard, but it is NOT impossible.
Let's just get completely honest... most of us ask the question "do you ever stop loving that person?" Or some form of that question... when does it stop hurting, when do you stop caring... etc etc...
Let me present this idea: What if you're not suppose to?
Now before you all start telling me how wrong you all think I am... or how stupid you all think I am, let me explain myself. What is love? (baby don't hurt me... don't hurt me... no more) Sorry... getting back on track...
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endure all things. Love never ends." ~ 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8a
This is not "love" as the world has defined it, this is love as God describes it... this is the unconditional love of God, with which He asks us to love the world with. It doesn't say that this is the love that we use to love our significant others with... this is the love with which we are to love everyone with... friends, family, colleagues, neighbours, people you encounter on a daily basis. Regardless of whether you are in a "romantic" relationship or not... you are to love your sisters and brothers in Christ with this same love!
Before you were "together" you were brothers and sisters in Christ, and in most cases, friends. Nothing changes this fact... and you loved each other. Now just because you're no longer together, it doesn't mean that you get to stop loving. It doesn't mean that they're no longer your sister or brother in Christ! The source with which you are loving with has not changed. Friends, family, wife husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, coworker, lady on the street... you love out of the abundance of God's love in you. How you express that love to each of these different people is different... but the source is not. So when you breakup... you don't STOP loving someone, you simply change the way you experss that love.
"By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another." ~ John 13:35
Open your eyes and your heart and your mind... and look beyond your human understanding of what love is. Read that verse in John... it screams of a different way of life. It tells us that we must live differently than the world...
I understand that this is hard. I do. I know that some relationships end with so much pain and bitterness... that this sounds impossible. I've been there. I know the pain of abandonment and betrayal as well, but God IS bigger than all of those things. Let God have all of that pain, and allow Him to make you new. Let God cleanse you of all that... restore your heart, so that HIS love may overflow in you, so that you may walk out His purposes for you. God's hand is worth holding... a grudge is not, but you cannot hold God's hand until you let of the grudge. (I should know!)
"Having purified your souls by your obedience to the truth for a sincere and brotherly love, love one another earnestly from a pure heart, since you have been born again, not of perishable seed but of imperishable, through the living and abiding word of God." ~ 1 Peter 1:22-23
Yes... this is hard, but it is NOT impossible.
1 Apr 2011
:)
God spoke right into my heart... and it was exactly what I needed to hear. :)
I could blog about it... but I'm starting to dislike the lack of interaction on here... and I know people are reading this, so if you want to know... ask me in person!
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